Ah, so you really do want to meet me?
Thank you for your interest and for carefully reading
through the nitty-gritty details.
My schedule tends to fill up very quickly, so I try to reduce confusion by keeping my website up to date regarding travel. I also post updates on my Twitter page. When I'm flitting about the City of Angels, I prefer weekday daytime trysts. Advance notice goes a long way in accommodating your scheduling needs. Please note that I am never available on Saturdays in Los Angeles.
I understand that sometimes life can derail your best laid plans. Still, by the time our date rolls around, I have already put in my time planning and often turned down other engagements. Short notice cancellations do not give me enough time to come up with alternative plans. Thus, I have a 50% cancellation fee if you cancel within 24 hours and a 25% cancellation fee if you cancel within 48 hours of our scheduled date. This is no different from a cancellation fee charged by a spa or other personal service. If you do not agree to this, do not book.
WIll you see me tonight?
In short, no. If we already know each other or you’re a P411 member, you can certainly ask for a short notice date on the off chance that I’m available. If we do not know each other, I am unlikely to respond to an email asking to meet within the next 24 hours. Please plan ahead, as we are all real humans with busy lives.
Will you do xyz thing?
To be quite frank, approaching a companion with a checklist of activities you would like her to perform is a major turn off and a solid way to ensure she’s not into it. Paying for my time does not diminish my autonomy, and consent is still key. I do not offer Greek, so please do not ask. If there’s a certain fetish or kink that is important to you and you want to find out if I am ok with it, that is perfectly fine to ask in a respectful manner. My preference would be that you do so after providing your screening information.
Anyone requesting unsafe services will be immediately blocked.
Can I be in a video with you?
No. I love when people enjoy the adult content that I post, but I do not film any of these with clients.
When are you coming to my city?
As a selective girl with a laid-back lifestyle, I tend to only visit the cities where I already have dear friends. Still, I can be lured to places off the beaten path. Send me an email if you’d like to discuss flying me to you for an extended date. I post travel dates on my website and Twitter page.
We have a date planned. How should I prepare?
How prudent of you to ask! A few things to know:
Please do not arrive more than five minutes early if coming to my place. I do not feel comfortable arriving with anyone waiting outside, and I prefer to maintain an inconspicuous presence anywhere that I stay. If I arrive and notice you parked outside, I'm likely to leave. Similarly, please do not approach my building until I've confirmed that I know that you're there.
While it's ideal to arrive freshly showered, I realize that you might be coming from work or traveling. In that case, my bathroom is always stocked with everything you might need to freshen up beforehand.
Oooh, and the most important thing - smile! Good things are about to happen.
May I write a review?
Thanks for asking first! I expect people I share my time with to respect my privacy. If writing about our date is of key importance to you, then we are not a good fit.
What are your interests?
Acquiring new and unexpected knowledge is one of my greatest pleasures. I am always up for a lively discussion of anything that you're passionate about, culture, politics, science, the future, human nature, the meaning of life - you know, basic stuff. I'm really into science fiction novels, Pilates, cats, video games, vegan dining, music, and travel. You?
May I bring food, wine, gifts, etc.?
For moi?! Thanks! Especially for longer dates, bringing something light to snack on would be very sweet of you. I do have a few restrictions, though. I try to eat a very clean diet and am strictly vegan. Please do not bring animal products for consumption. I have also decided to abstain from alcohol for health reasons, though I don't mind if you bring something for yourself. As for snacks, fresh fruit is always a safe bet!
I do adore presents - don't we all? If you're not sure what I like, check out my Net-a-Porter wishlist here and my Wishlist page. Right now, I'm focused on getting my new home perfectly presentable; Etsy and eBay gift cards would be very helpful, as well as anything from my currently evolving Amazon wishlist.